Would you wear a bathing suit walking down the street? Would you go topless in public and or at the beach or pool? I think it’s funny the moment we get to a pool or the beach the rules change. Women are wearing sexy barely covering bathing suits; more men are wearing speedos, and the moment we leave the pool or beach we fully cover-up. Why is America in 2019 still so prude and trying to make us go back in time? It’s because women are sexual objects, and men are still trying to make our property of them. It follows that what might arouse men can only be displayed when men want to be stimulated. Women’s breasts have been hyper-sexualized, whereas men’s have not. This produces the idea that her sexy body should be covered, and that exposure of such intimate parts is inappropriate in a public setting. The moment a man gets hot walking down the street, he can take off his shirt.
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2019-09-03 22:13:26 +0000 UTC
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Would you travel alone? Would you go to dinner or the movies alone? Where would you go? September 1, 2016, three years ago, Romeo and I started our sexy warrior road trip across the country. We started in San Francisco and headed East. We took our time, and we finally made it to the east coast right before Thanksgiving. I love to travel and experience all kinds of the world. Driving with my Romeo shitzu mix was the best experience and trip I have ever been on. We took our time; we didn’t plan anything except a dude ranch for seven days in big sky Montana. I chose a dude ranch because of the movie City Slickers with Billy Crystal. I was born and raised in Los Angeles, so camping and nature was not part of my upbringing. At the ranch, I tried to fly fishing and went horseback riding. It was nothing like the movie, but I loved being in Montana. From the ranch we headed to Yellowstone. Have you been to Yellowstone? Please make a trip there. Instagram.com/drresa to read the full blog. Xoxo💋
2019-09-02 18:56:58 +0000 UTC
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Do you remember what life was like before cell phones? Do you miss times when people would talk, not take pictures of everything and live life at that moment? What would you do if you didn’t have your cell phone for 1 day, 1 week, 1 month or even 1 year? When you use your phone do you get a lot done or do you waste more time swiping, scrolling and doing things that don’t really matter? Do you get on your phone more when you have anxiety or when you get shy and it’s your security blanket? I am guilty just like you. It’s a bad habit that we are all doing and we are not living our lives like we did before. You may of never experienced life without a phone and now it’s strapped to us every moment of our life. With our phones in our hands we forget how to communicate, how to look up and say hi or smile and even hug or hold our partner or friends hands. We are turning into robots moving along in this crazy world. Instagram.com/drresa to read the full blog! Xoxo 💋
2019-08-31 20:31:20 +0000 UTC
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Are you confident? What is stopping you from being confident and sexy? Could it be the four fears of confidence? This world teaches us fear through religion, politics, and media. They use real/fake news and fear-mongering strategies. Are you ready to learn the four worries of confidence? First, we need to change our habits and start working on four ways to be confident and make this world, religion, and the political world more proactive and add more positivity in our lives. 1.Fear of being yourself. You need to conquer the fear. Your homework is to write down your anxiety by being yourself. What people think of you, what they dislike you, and why people won’t accept you. 2. Fear of self-promotion is afraid of reactions, responses, and what others think of our work, website, blog, etc. Are you afraid people won’t support or like what you are promoting? You need to take actions, move forward, and make things happen. Instagram.com/drresa for the full blog. Xoxo 💋
2019-08-30 21:22:18 +0000 UTC
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Do you think I am confident? Are you confident? What does confidence mean to you? Confidence means feeling sure of yourself and your abilities, not in an arrogant, cocky way, but in a realistic, secure way. Confidence isn't about feeling better than others. It's a quiet inner knowledge that you're capable and willing. Confident people feel ready for everyday challenges and to be the best they can be. Tomorrow’s blog will be on the four fears of confidence and how we can change our ways to become confident, sexy, and your true self! Today is #throwbackthursday. When were you authentic, real, honest, vulnerable, were you this way when you were born? Who changes our beliefs, choices, passions, and desires. Who do you think? Your family, friends, religion, politics, media(tv, news, social platforms, music, and so on. Would you like to be your true authentic sexual self? Think about your memories that made you feel whole, alive, and your most fabulous self. Drresa.com for more! Xoxo 💋
2019-08-29 23:00:20 +0000 UTC
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Do you get naked in your bathroom while getting ready? Do you get naked at the gym? What about changing in front of your family and or friends? Please say YES or NO below in the comments and the reason WHY? We are all born naked, and we are all born without decisions & a choice of who are parents are. Our parents, our family, our upbringing, our environment, our politics, our religion starts our life on a track you want, or you don't. Do you feel like you were born in the wrong family, the wrong era, the wrong location? Do you think and wonder this way? Do you feel normal or different? What do you want for the rest of your life? Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Today is #tapyourtulipstuesday a day to explore your breast and get to know your body and how it feels from your time of the month to your daily life regimens. Go into your bathroom or the gym locker room and get naked. Walk around, feel the difference being naked. Join fancentro.com/drresa for more! Xox…
2019-08-28 01:29:13 +0000 UTC
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Ask me anything? Drop it in the comments below? Like my post and ask me a question. Try to keep it clean! If you want more naughty risqué photos to join onlyfans.com/drresa fancentro.com/drresa Remember to subscribe YouTube.com/drresa drresa.com Instagram.com/drresa today is #stripteasesaturday enjoy smiling, dancing, flirting and trying something new. You are sexy, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you sexy ones! Xoxo 💋 @drresa photo 📷 @myvisionsboudoir lingerie @maison_close_nyc
2019-08-24 15:13:25 +0000 UTC
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Do you think you could be sexy and professional? What about sexy and a parent? Could you be sexy with yourself and or partner? What is sexy to you? Sexy to me is confidence, being courageous, being true to yourself, making your own decisions, how passionate you live your life, you want others to be a better person, and you want to love and be loved.
I was born to be in the sex industry. Does that sound crazy, taboo, wild or forbidden? I have been intrigued and enamored to learn about this hidden world that made so much sense to me. Over 22 years in the business as a stripper, owner/instructor of EbyResa striptease lap dance lessons, sensual services, coaching, and more. There is so much to explore, experience learns, and enjoy. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Please join my journey. I share my vulnerable, real-life stories, photos, blogs, videos, coaching. Daily you never know what the hot topics I will be dishing about. Join Instagram.com/drresa for more. 💋
2019-08-23 22:33:53 +0000 UTC
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Are you interested in knowing what saved my life and my constipation issues? Yesterday’s blog I talked about (TMI) to much information and bowel movements. For over six years, I was constipated, bled, uncertain & stressed over why and what were the issues with my gut. I was only seeing western doctors, using my health insurance, I spent an extra (out of my pocket) thousands of dollars on prescriptions, a colonoscopy, and a nutrition specialist. Still, nothing changed, and doctors would give me medicine & hope for the best. I had some extra money to see an acupuncturist who specializes in (NRT) nutrition response testing. She saved my life. The first day I met her, she did the trial and asked me if I had any piercings. Over 20 years ago, I had my tongue pierced, and for six years before meeting Srinika, I had my clit hood pierced. She told me I’m allergic to metal and I need to remove it. I loved my piercing, and was this going to make me regularly bowel 💩. Instagram.com/drresa
2019-08-20 20:08:33 +0000 UTC
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Do you know what TMI stands for? It means "too much information!" or saying, "I didn't need to hear that" or "that is taboo or obnoxious for you to share that.” I am Dr. Resa sexy Sexologist & I share a lot of TMI topics and speak the truth on hot conversations we think about, but we don't talk about it. Please follow, subscribe, comment, like, share & get notified on my social media @drresa Todays hot topic on masturbation Monday is on bowel movements & how food, water, massage, movement, masturbation, acupuncture, breathe, meditation, sleep, self-care, and more healthy habits to implement in our daily lives to feel alive, healthy & happy. Do you believe in that? This will not pertain to only shitting but everything else in your life. I get constipated! It started over ten years ago, and I could not figure out what was wrong. Days to even weeks without pooping, I would bleed not just where your thinking but my gums. Instagram.com/drresa to read the rest of the blog! X…
2019-08-19 14:58:27 +0000 UTC
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What schools offer a doctorate in human sexuality? Which schools would you learn the truth, facts & everything sexual to help love yourself, accept yourself, and become your highest version? If you like yourself and understand who you are individual, you can share, teach, and help others. The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality (IASHS) was (est. 1976) it was an institution and resource center in the field of sexology located in San Francisco, CA. They offered doctorates, degrees, and certificate programs focusing on public sexual health, clinical sexology, and sexological research.
The Institute started from research in the 1960s that highlighted the lack of understanding and being honest, real, genuine knowledge and training in human sexuality. The library and archives were a collection of adult films, academic sexology, and erotological resources books and a sex art museum. Read the rest of the post on Instagram.com/drresa xoxo 💋
2019-08-17 15:44:50 +0000 UTC
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Did you read the last blog post what I did before I became a sexologist? Comment YES below & like all my sexy photos! The more yes’s I get, the more people get to hear my essential words! Today I’m talking about: Why I decided to become a sexologist? I decided to take my career to the next level, so I enrolled at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, (IASHS), in San Francisco. In 2015, I received my Doctorate in Human Sexuality as well as certificates in sex education, clinical sexology, and erotology. I am board certified by the American College of Sexologists (ACS).
Over the years, I have learned to communicate, build confidence, and genuinely love myself. I can finally say that I am happy, healthy, sexual, and enjoying life to the fullest. I want to share all that I’ve learned with others, in the hopes that everyone can embrace the highest version of themselves. Join Instagram.com/drresa and drresa.com to view more!! Xoxo 💋
2019-08-15 15:53:37 +0000 UTC
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2019-08-14 16:25:50 +0000 UTC
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2019-08-14 16:24:29 +0000 UTC
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2019-08-14 16:23:27 +0000 UTC
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2019-08-14 16:21:31 +0000 UTC
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Did you read the last blog post what a sexologist is? Comment YES below & like all my sexy photos! The more yes’s I get, the more people get to hear my essential words! Today I’m talking about my life before I became a sexologist. It was at SDSU that my interest in human sexuality first emerged. With my newfound self-confidence, I put myself through undergrad as an exotic dancer. I found it very empowering, and that did wonders for my self-esteem. My newly heightened sexual awareness piqued my interest and made me think of how I could share my experiences to help other people who were going through the same types of struggles that I went through.
I received my Bachelor’s degree in business and marketing from SDSU and decided to start a business teaching every-day women how to incorporate dancing and striptease into their lives. I also produced DVDs based on my classes. Read the full blog Instagram.com/drresa and drresa.com
2019-08-14 14:05:14 +0000 UTC
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What’s a sexologist? A sexologist specializes in human sexuality and sexual behavior. A certified sexologist has completed 500 hours of formal training in human sexuality. A sexologist with a Masters or Doctorate has completed more than 3000 hours of formal training. A sexologist views human sexuality from a multi-disciplinary, systemic, and multi-faceted perspective. As a sexologist, I study sex. I study people’s sexual behaviors, feelings, and interactions. It is my job to help people learn about their sexuality, become more comfortable with it, and feel good about expressing themselves sexually. Sexology is the scientific study of sex. It is an interdisciplinary field that encompasses the areas of psychology, sociology, medicine, anthropology, biology, and more. As a sexologist, I have received extensive education and training in the field of human sexuality. Instagram.com/drresa drresa.com xoxo 💋
2019-08-13 18:48:49 +0000 UTC
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What’s a sexologist? Why did I decide to become a sexologist? What school did I get my doctorate in human sexuality? Why did I choose that school instead of Kinsey Institute, Widener, and or a gender studies program? Why did Iashs close there doors in 2018? What are the top three things I got out of going to the Institute? Are you interested in knowing more answers? Go to my sex, relationship, confidence coaching website drresa.com I will be posting my answers on Instagram.com/drresa the next few days and I will be posting the full blog at drresa.com, patreon.com/drresa and onlyfans.com/drresa If your loving the photos and videos join fancentro.com/drresa today for my VIP daily snaps just for you! Today is #flirtyfriday go out and flirt, smile, say hi and feel alive and sexy! Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? I offer sex online coaching, webinars, workshops, plus more. Sign up for my newsletter today! Remember, you are hot, brave, confident, and worth it. Xoxo 💋
2019-08-09 14:51:00 +0000 UTC
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What is sex trafficking? Sex trafficking is a form of modern slavery, where adults and children are being coerced into doing sex acts against their will. What is sex work? Sex work is the business or practice of engaging in sexual activity in exchange for payment. If a consenting adult chooses to be in the sex industry, that is NOT sex trafficking. What are ways to make consenting adults who wish to be in the sex industry a safe environment for ourselves and to the people who want to see us? I believe unsafe, unhealthy ways of sex is in many homes with partners who make the rules and control you with money, a house, clothes, etc. Are you in a specific environment that you don’t feel safe, and you are physically and mentally abused? This is a form of trafficking. Did you hear about the Epstein sex trafficking scandal? He was arrested recently for accusations of sexual predation that he did for decades. Until his arrest. to read the full blog join Instagram.com/drresa
2019-08-07 20:04:23 +0000 UTC
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Where the magic starts and becomes the sexy photos you are enjoying. Thank you for the support. Xoxo 💋
2019-08-06 23:54:20 +0000 UTC
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Do you have breast? We all have chest or have had breast! Do you massage, caress, tap your breast? While you are touching your breast, do you feel the texture, the temperature, the movement? What about getting to know your nipples? How they feel, are they tender, are they chapped or does anything come out of them? These are all critical questions to think about when you are learning and loving your body. When’s the last time you looked at your boobs and body in the mirror? This is smart, but a sometimes difficult exercise to practice. This is a way to start understanding your free vessel and examining your body. Today is #tapyourtulipstuesday Every day or at least on Tuesday’s take time to make a sexy, healthy habit and get to know your breast, your nipples & the sides below your armpit. Each week they may feel different with your period or your daily regimens. Are you interested in a sexual health tracker to write down your findings? Go to Instagram.com/drresa to read it all!
2019-08-06 14:13:53 +0000 UTC
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Is masturbation one of your habits? Do you self touch and self explore every day? When you touch yourself, do you use your hands and fingers? Or do you use a dildo, vibrator or a sex toy? What’s your form of getting excited to self-pleasure yourself? Pornography or sexy photos on your phone, computer, DVDs, VHS tapes, magazines and or a fantasy/imagination? Have you tried mutual masturbation with your partner? What about spicing up your self-care regimen with different positions, a new location, not using porn or a toy and trying something different. We get used to a daily habit and if we change it up we usually find out so much more about ourselves! Please share your stories below. The more we think about it, the more we talk about it, the more we learn. Today is masturbation Monday! Take time for yourself and start your week off with a bang. Remember you are sexy, confident, courageous and worth it. Love you sexy ones!! If interested in more sexy photos join fansonly.com/drresa Xoxo
2019-08-05 17:42:13 +0000 UTC
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What is a habit? What are your daily habits? What is the difference between a habit and an addiction? A practice is something you do often or regularly, often without thinking about it.
Are your habits healthy, disgusting, addicting, funny, mean, controlling, and or a waste of time? Here are some habits that could be good or bad depending on the person: smoking, drugs, food, road rage, porn, gambling, swearing, blaming, drink coffee, skin and hair picking, wasting time online, wasting time with the wrong partners, friends or family, spending money you don’t have, speaking with your mouth full and so on and so on. Habits work by a trigger, a routine, and a reward. How do you change a habit? 1. identify the pattern you are ready to change or break 2. identify the trigger of this habit 3. identify the routine of the practice 4. identify the reward that you get from the pattern. Once you figured and identified the trigger, routine. Join Instagram.com/drresa to read the rest of the blog
2019-08-03 15:52:50 +0000 UTC
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Did you watch the Democratic debates? Who's your favorite candidate? Who do you think could beat Donald Trump? I’m trying to stay optimistic, but I don’t believe anyone can beat Trump except Oprah Winfrey. At this moment, she is not running, and she loves her life way too much even to contemplate to run. Would you if you were her? She is the only women and black person who could beat him. I don’t think any of the candidates who are women, not white and or gay, have a chance. It makes me sad and scared for our America. Trump supporters who would maybe decide on another candidate would have to be moderate, reliable, and make them feel like they will be a much better president than him. I wish one of the candidates were one of them. The last three years so much has changed to the worst, especially being in the sex industry. My business, my passion, and livelihood are diminishing, more stressful, scary, and not as safe. Follow instagram.com to read the rest of the blog! Xoxo 💋
2019-08-02 14:37:05 +0000 UTC
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Have you heard of Mercury Retrograde? The past three weeks did you deal with significant misunderstandings with communication, travel and technology mishaps, and random texts from exes? Did your computer, phone or television crash or break and you couldn’t figure out why? Did you have arbitrary arguments with friends, coworkers, and or partners? Did your travel plans not work out the way you planned? Was this one of the most noticeable and worst mercury retrogrades for you? My computer has been playing tricks on me and telling me I have no storage space and shuts everything down. When you have your own business, and you're always on your computer what to do. My period is two weeks late, and I have not made a real good bowel movement in over a week. I cried more than usual, and there’s been arguments and flair ups that need to be resolved. Finally, Mercury retrograde is over, but we are now in the retro shade. The rest of blog on Instagram.com/drresa
2019-08-01 19:46:27 +0000 UTC
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Do you know what today is? This day should be everyday? A day that ends with y!! It’s national orgasm day! Plus it’s #humpday What are you doing today to celebrate? You can explore yourself through self-touch self-love self-exploration and learning and loving your free vessel. It’s also a great day to connect with a lover and try different sex positions and remember to touch your clitoris or ask your partner to touch it for you. Remember you are sexy, confident and worth it! If interested in seeing more sexy photos and videos check out onlyfans.com/drresa & fancentro.com/drresa. Love you sexy ones! Xoxo 💋 DR @Drresa 📷 @myvisionsboudoir #selftouch #selflove #confidence #exploration #touch
2019-07-31 15:40:29 +0000 UTC
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What is con-sent? Permission for something to happen or agreement to do something. Sexual con-sent means actively agreeing to be sexual with someone. Con-sent lets someone know that sex is wanted. Sexual activity without is r-ape or sexual assault. Yesterday in my masturbation Monday blog I was talking about how important it is learn and love yourself and body to understand what con-sent and boundaries are. If you don’t know who you are and what you want how can you say yes or no and or speak up. What’s crazy is I am on this new platform onlyfans.com/drresa and there are certain words that are not permitted. Con-sent is one of them. So I changed it to con-sent but why I ask. This is the world of thisunknown of fosta sesta and conservatives. Being in the sex industry, talking and teaching about sexual health and sex education we are removed daily. Please register to vote, vote and speak your truth to get sex to be a more natural and a non taboo subject. @drresa rest of blog!
2019-07-30 21:39:24 +0000 UTC
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Happy Masturbation Monday! Please take time for self touch, self awareness, self love and self care. The more you learn and connect with yourself the more you can love you and others. This helps you learn con-sent, boundaries and learning what you enjoy and crave. Remember you are sexy, confident and worth it! Love you sexy ones!! Xoxo 💋 DR
2019-07-30 00:03:37 +0000 UTC
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What’s your self-care Sunday look like? We all do different things to make us feel rejuvenated, alive, happy, sexy, and taken care of. What’s yours? Mine used to be Sunday Funday, boozy brunch, watching sports, flirting, partying and staying up all day and night. We had fun, and I still enjoy a crazy wild Sunday here and there. The next day I felt like shit, and I didn’t want to do anything. I don’t miss those days. Now I enjoy doing yoga, masturbating, getting massages, meeting up with friends, spending time with my Romeo Blue, and focusing on me. Working on my sexy sexologist biz is all day every day. I love what I do, but sometimes I need to get off social media, the phone, and Netflix. Don’t you? Please comment below your #selfcaresunday plans? Remember you are amazing, courageous, confident, and worth it. Love you sexy ones!! If interested in more sexy photos and videos, please join my only fans.com/drresa xoxo 💋 DR @drresa 📷 @myvisionsboudoir lingerie by @maison_close_ny
2019-07-28 15:45:56 +0000 UTC
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