🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 If you are systematically disappointing someone, how are you still expecting them to want your energy around? Rebirth, growth, elevation - if you don't come with that, you can stay 👉🏽 over there. ☀️🖤
2023-07-29 11:35:44 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Emotional maturity is listening to the experience behind the emotion and not simply react to it. ☀️🖤
2023-07-28 09:40:29 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Self-care shouldn't be a special event, but rather be integrated into your routine. The more you take those few (or many!) minutes to care for your body, mind and Soul and make it a constant in your life and space, the less "breaks", the less frazzled and lacking you are. Make time for yourself, you're worth it. ☀️🖤
2023-07-27 09:40:48 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Imagine loving yourself and showing up for yourself the way you love and show up for them. Too many times people equate being strong with holding on, when often it's in letting go that lies the strength. I'm happy you are here. ☀️🖤
2023-07-26 09:56:45 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 BBs, your feelings are valid, but your behavior might not be. One does not justify the other if you're harming others. Knee-jerk reactions aren't the same as natural consequences of actions, words and choices. You can control you, even though you cannot control your emotions. Evolve, don't repeat. When you know better, do better, be better.☀️🖤
2023-07-25 10:03:05 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Many times people want what they are un-willing to offer. They crave loyalty, love, support, availability, consistency, even a future, but they will not do their part nor will it even cross their mind as something required of them also. If plural you aren't working together, singular you needs to reevaluate and walk away. ☀️🖤 (OF won't let me type un-willing altogether. This is special.🙄)
2023-07-24 09:59:26 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Stop apologizing for being human. For being busy, for becoming emotional, for not being perfect, for being ND and for setting boundaries others might not like. Hold your awareness and self-awareness up always, don't let others take advantage of your extreme empathy for their comfort. ☀️🖤
2023-07-23 10:21:34 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 BB, understand that being good to those who dismiss you or mistreat you won't make them suddenly get a grip and be good to you. Don't waste your energy and love on those who are leading you on with momentary highs and perpetual lows. Redirect that love to you. ☀️🖤
2023-07-22 12:16:37 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Watch for the people who tend to vanish when they are in relationships, but then seek you out when those are over, either needing the emotional labor or suddenly "remembering" you exist. Those are not your friends. Choose your people better. ☀️🖤
2023-07-21 10:00:43 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 This is a summary of the recurrent discussion I have with those around me, coincidentally all NDs: know that others do not have the same heart nor capacity for understanding that you have. Our hearts break less times or with less intensity if we are aware of how unaware they are. It's alright, they're just not our people. ☀️🖤
2023-07-20 09:32:40 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 BBs, sometimes things not working out is them working out: a relationship ending might be protecting you of worse, an opportunity no longer being on the table might be because something more suitable is coming, a conflict of schedule might be because it wouldn't serve you. At times what isn't, is meant to be. ☀️🖤
2023-07-19 10:26:27 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 If your light makes someone else uncomfortable, that's not a you problem, that's a them problem. Let them figure it out: drop it, dust your hands off and walk away. We're no longer making ourselves small so others can digest us. Be authentically, obnoxiously you. ☀️🖤
2023-07-18 10:03:57 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Change can be scary, but staying the same is far scarier. At times, you have to release the clutch you have onto what it "should" be or what you expected it to be in order to get ahead, get on your path, get safer, healthier, more stable. Even when that means letting go of what you know or who you know. ☀️🖤
2023-07-17 08:49:22 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 BBs, we all know some connections are only meant to teach you to walk away from what is not for you. Remove the toxicity, overcome the guilt of putting yourself first and learn that people's actions matter far more than their excuses. Their actions speak, no need to sit down with them to have "closure". Learn to be done, respect yourself. ☀️🖤
2023-07-16 11:10:51 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Learn to delay your reaction when people are purposefully trying to provoke you. Don't allow them to play at your strings: you control you. Letting them take your peace in a way that you offer knee-jerk reactions is playing their game and some take an immense pleasure out of it. Be more zen and less puppet. ☀️🖤
2023-07-15 11:29:23 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 It is exhausting to keep pushing through, to not be okay, but having to be, to be unable to stop for a multitude of reasons... I see you. I am you. You're so worthy of rest, of love, of better days and I wholeheartedly hope they're coming soon. ☀️🖤
2023-07-14 08:40:20 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Being a "good person" does not mean suffering. Stop being okay with things you are not okay with, things that are against you and what you believe. Being good isn't being taken advantage of or allowing yourself to be a doormat. You can stand up for yourself and still be a good person. ☀️🖤
2023-07-13 12:09:41 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Stop giving chances to people who do not care about you. Doesn't that idea sting? It can hurt to acknowledge, but mishandling people and then avoiding communication isn't them protecting their peace, it's not being accountable. You don't need that brand of immaturity anywhere near you. ☀️🖤
2023-07-12 11:24:09 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 My BBs, release the idea that you have to stay due to "time already spent", the idea of time imvested in something or someone. That is not a good reason to remain in something that isn't working out for you. Or them. Be more considerate of time in order not to waste it. You won't get a return on it. ☀️🖤
2023-07-11 11:31:50 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 You need time, effort and consistency to make something work. Love and intention aren't enough if you keep having to sacrifice your needs - yourself - for those who don't even realize it. You can't get reciprocated by giving them more of what they already don't want. Lack of interest and dismissal aren't signs to love them harder. ☀️🖤
2023-07-10 10:49:17 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Every morning there's a new opportunity awaiting. A new opportunity to start something new, end something that has to be released, reground, retrain, love. Take 3 deep breaths and stretch your whole body - mind that lightheadedness. Look out the window, towards the sky. You got this. ☀️🖤
2023-07-09 09:38:38 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Don't waste your time arguing at every possible chance, not everybody has the mental capacity to understand you, nor will ever change their mind, so make sure you aren't shouting against the wind. Collect yourself instead, spare yourself and keep your spoons. Not everything, if anything, is worth your peace. ☀️🖤
2023-07-08 11:00:58 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 If your nervous system and body are in permanent fight or flight mode, it's impossible to receive more than the bare minimum. If you are used to scarcity, lack and disappointment, your body and mind don't/won't know what to do when you start receiving. You'll fight it, you won't believe it, won't trust it, will self-sabotage. Know this and act accordingly. ☀️🖤
2023-07-07 12:30:29 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Let go of what let go of you. Let go of what doesn't serve you. Expectations, limitations, guilt. Leave what is making you small and afraid. At times acceptance needs to be radical. ☀️🖤
2023-07-06 10:27:50 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 It's okay to have needs, boundaries and standards and have these be non-negotiable, unbending. Protecting yourself isn't being "mean", it's preventing people from wasting your time. ☀️🖤
2023-07-05 11:09:15 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 BBs, solitude is preferred over people who are fine with hurting you, with failing you and being disloyal to you. Focus on your own growth and learn that happiness comes from within. ☀️🖤
2023-07-04 11:54:23 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Your energy is a gift, your time is precious. Apply them to what and whom is aligned with your dreams and passions, instead of depleting yourself for a momentary high or a pretty face. ☀️🖤
2023-07-03 11:35:32 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 The healthiest, safest, best decisions for yourself might disappoint other people. You should still make them. Do not compromise yourself for the sake of a connection that doesn't hear you. ☀️🖤
2023-07-02 11:11:28 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 How you start your morning dictates your day. Having a good routine on lock helps your mind navigate whatever else you got coming after. Make your physical and emotional health a priority. ☀️🖤
2023-07-01 10:53:37 +0000 UTC View Post🎶Good mooorniiing🎶 Emotional immaturity can show up as deflection and as reaction to perceived criticism - taking it personally - when just having a discussion. Learn to reel in your knee-jerk reactions. ☀️🖤
2023-06-30 10:49:17 +0000 UTC View Post
